Monday, December 24, 2007

The 'Others'


They don’t crib about music being too loud at ‘Blues’, CP. They never wonder how people survive without non vegetarian food. They have never tasted biscuits, ice cream, soft drinks; don’t know what pizzas are. May be, they have seen the wrappers with the other mucky bits of cardboard and paper they collect everyday. They can never roll up the windows of their cars, switch on the AC and frown at the pollution. They don’t know what laptops are. They never celebrate their birthdays. They don’t have a favorite brand, sometimes no family, no caste, no religion, not even an identity.

Yet they live.

The whole point is not to sell the idea by making it sound poignant and sad. The point I’m trying to make here is, that we should never, NEVER forget that there are people in this world who are less privileged than we are. And that doesn’t stop them from being what they are, and deprive them of their right to be respected. The fellow who sells groundnuts in the neighbourhood, the kids who hunt for stuff through the dumps in the nearby municipal garbage chute, the maid who cleans your home, the beggar ladies and street urchins who run to you outside Mc. D in Noida, the rickshaw pullers, or the 'chotu' working at the dhaba… all have a right to live, to be respected. And that just because they are penniless, doesn’t mean they have lost the right to be treated right. Specially the kids. In the tender stage of learning about the solar system and row multiplication, they roam around in rags without proper food and shelter. While a number take to slavery and prostitution, many fall prey to drugs and illegal organ trafficking.

Somehow I feel a sudden rush of shame when I see them, shame of being better off than them. I don’t think they are any less mortal and deserving than I am. What is it that saved me from destitution? What makes me worthy of what I have today and what I wear? They could be as good human beings as I am. Maybe better ones at that. I can almost hear my conscience sneering at me as I try to look away and deliberately avoid the grim ironies of life.

I don’t think they really need our sympathy. They are proud to be what they are, I say. These guys share this planet with the Ambanis and Bill Gates and Warren Buffets of this world, and are not any less deserving than anyone who is reading this as well. I just want people to remember this the next time they flinch at some slum nearby.

I am no Robin Hood, just a fellow blogger who thought of spreading the word. A smile, a good deed and a kind word would do. If that is too much, then poverty would have a new meaning. Heh.

This New Year, when you resolve to stick to a good diet plan, exercise regularly, drink or smoke less, just add one more check to the list- that of being a good human being. Know why it is an innocuous exercise? That’s because it is only the equals and the wealthier that have the ability to harm you. Or do some good, if they too resolve in being kind to people less privileged than them.

Following is a hymn we used to sing in schooldays… Used to be… No it still is my favourite. It's short and simple, but has a very nice message. Here Goes...


When upon life’s billows you are tempest tossed,
When you are discouraged thinking all is lost,
Count your many blessings name them one by one,
And it will surprise you what the lord hath done.

Count your blessings name them one by one
Count your blessings see what God hath done.
Count your blessings; name them one by one.
And it will surprise you what the lord hath done.

Are you ever burdened with a load of care
Does the cross seem heavy you are called to bear?
Count your blessings angels will attend,
Health and comfort bring you to your journey’s end.

Count your blessings name them one by one
Count your blessings see what God hath done.
Count your blessings; name them one by one.
And it will surprise you what the lord hath done.

6 comments:

aria said...

Don't know how to write .. what I wanted to say. Unsettling .. well-written and you've written something that one can not help but care about.. I just read a wonderful poem somewhere on blogs about two contrasting chistmas .. one celebrated by those who virtually celebrate chistmas everyday coz they are opulent.. and 'others' who are starving..

AshenGlow said...

@aria: ^_^ Thanks dear...
Of all the festivals we celebrate, i guess Christmas is the only one where we talk of giving, sharing and spreading love. It's something that can be celebrated in equal gaiety and spirit irrespective of the opulence.Right?
I remember reading such short stories in "The chicken soup" series. Some wonderful stuff it used to have!

AakASH!!! said...

Christmas. Long ago i wrote a poem on this as well. Pataa nahin kahaan gayi.

But 'Blues', you remind me of good things and the not so good things together.

On my way back from ISBT yesterday morn, from the bus standing at a red traffic signal in Lutyens Delhi, saw this little girl. Must be 2-3 yrs old, her fragile mother held another lil baby in her bony arms. And this girl was dressed in a woolen frock, with a wool cap, her face dirty with her flowing nose. The mucus had dried into black lines on her pudgy little face, and she walked barefoot. Kicking at stones, picking them up and fashioning toys from them. Such innocence can be heart wrenching, that too when another guy is selling Rs 10 Santa caps to make his living. The others are also ours, just like we are theirs. Isnt it?

Glorious christmas. Best Wishes.

AshenGlow said...

@Aakash:...
Hmm..
Tujhme agar woh baat hain..
Barish ka ghar bhi paas hain..
Roke tujhe koi kyu bhala...
sang sang tere Aakash hain...

O Bekhabar... :)

Gaurav Jha said...

you do realize that this particular article makes one want to subscribe to your blog. Now, since that's not possible, thught i'll just scribble siomething here.A very genuine thought, shared by many who take time off to think of those whom we see serving us tea and coffee everyday, running towards us as soon as they see us with something edible in our hands.We think about all that u said here, we hope we could do something about it, but at times, we can do nothing but watch and do our little bit for al those who are not where we are.

AshenGlow said...

@Gaurav: Thanks dear! That was really flattering i must say!
And keep visiting my blog... :)